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How to boost your dating confidence


How to feel confident when dating


If only the woman or man you want to meet would give you a few minutes to get to know you then he or she would see that you’re worth their time. Confidence, charisma and humour. are the characteristics that women and men look for when determining if women and men are attractive. You more than likely know how it is to approach a lady or man and feel as if you’d very little charm and charisma together with her or him. You really need to him or her feel that you’re worth dealing with and get to know you just a little better? Are you looking For Your Soul Mate? Have a confident smile and never frown. 

Do you know individuals who are human magnets? Think of a film star, how do they come over? Some people think exceptional communication and social skills are the key to confidence, charisma. Do you come over as over confidant it could come over as arrogant or cocky? If you exercise it makes you more confident, focus on your positive attributes. Be polite. Develop your confidence through meditation and goal setting. Carry yourself confidently. With regards to how you stand, stand straight and keep your head and chin up. How do others see you? Ask people who are close to you. If they ask feel embarrassed about do this ask them to do this anonymously. Tilting your head, face, and eyes towards your date exudes confidence. Be open, sincere but tactful.

Remember flirting is all about confidence with the other sex. Do not discuss ex-partners, very off putting. Talk about work. Keep the conversation varied. Look interested in what they are saying. Be cheerful. Find out what interests you both and ask them if they want to carry out that activity with you so that you both have a great time.

You might think you have zero confidence however it might be the opposite, because you might feel you couldn't live up to the sometimes-impossible standards you have for yourself or others. Think of every day as a new day and in the new day you are going to be more confident.


Senior dating anxiety


A first date can be very worrying, you might have put so much into chatting and building up a relationship online that you that you might not be up to your dates expectations.  The date might be of particular importance to you because you have been building up a relationship with a man or lady for some time and you think has a great possibility of making a relationship with this person.  Remember lots of the time, in fact the vast majority people embellish the truth and tell little white lies.


Some of your past experiences good or bad might be influencing the way you feel about how it is going to go.  Are you going to fall in love straight away and get hurt?  Remember it is only a date it is not a relationship.


Anything you do in life always needs preparation.  Make sure you have everything ready before hand.  Do not rush around at the last moment.  Have a practice run.  Do not finish work and then rush home when you are all stressed and do not have much time to get ready.  It is not polite and courteous to leave your date waiting for you.  It makes them feel as though you do not care.  


The main objective of a first date is to work out if you want to see the person again on another date!  It is important not to take the first date too seriously.  Sometimes you will walk away from a date and think it has gone well and for some unknown reason your senior date will not want to go on another date with you.


It is important not to have alcohol as a crutch, if you do this you might end embarrassing yourself by not communicating properly on the first date.  If your date has children or you have children you do not want to become known as Alco pops (sorry for that poor lame little joke).


Make sure you have your conversation prepared.  Talk about something that interests you both.  Conversation should flow easily and should be interesting for the both of you.  You should listen and hear what your date is saying.


Create a good first impression, remember first impression count.  Dress smartly and not tarty.  Dress to impress for the occasion, chat about what you are going to do.


Remember taking mediation to elevate your fears is only a tempory solution if you are going to have a relationship with this person you must feel comfortable in their company.


Make sure you are always safe.  Carry a mobile with you make sure it is charged up and has credit on it and let people know where you are going.  Meet in a public place and do not give your address details to them.  Possibly have a cheap pay as you go phone so that if you have got stalker you can always ditch the sim card and ditch you nuisance date.

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