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Dating and rebound relationships

After a divorce, separation from a long-term relationship, many people try to make up for their emotional losses by rushing right into another relationship.

People who are emerging from serious relationships are often advised to avoid serious dating until their tumultuous emotions have calmed. It is important to take time to get to know yourself better before getting to know anyone else.

Do not go into a rebound relationship expecting your new partner to make up for the shortcomings and mistakes of the old partner.  Learn by your previous mistakes so that next road you go down in your new relationship is not a bumpy one.  Try not to model your new relationship on your old one, you need to move on and start afresh.

Some people choose new partners who are replicas of their previous partners.  Your new partner might find this very scary when they realize   You cannot form a new relationship or partner into something or somebody they do not want to be.  You cannot control or manipulate them.

You might feel unattractive because you have been dumped for someone else.  Loosing someone to somebody else can be worse than bereavement because you know the person is still around, you could see them out on the town enjoying themselves you might feel you have got a chance of getting them back.

If you do want to get your ex-partner back please do not bring someone else into unwanted love triangles it is not fair on other people.

To love others again you have got to learn how to love yourself.

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